Valentine’s Day is a big day for couples, and it ought to be special. However, there certainly shouldn’t be some cookie-cutter approach to Valentine’s dates since every relationship could be in different stages and every love is just uniquely different and special.
If you don’t know how to make February 14 count, here are some really great ideas that will make the day unforgettable:
1. For Those Just Starting Out
If nothing is quite official yet since you met on a dating site but you could see where things are heading, your first Valentine’s date together could feel both exciting and terrifying. You don’t want to run the risk of saying too much or too little, and you want to keep it ‘safe’ as of now. A nice meal together could be a great option. It doesn’t have to be a fancy reservation at an expensive restaurant. It could just be a nice yet intimate reservation at a local place or even a simple takeout from your favorite spot. After a nice dinner together, you can indulge in some refreshing cocktails and even test out your chance to build passion and intimacy which will only strengthen the budding relationship.
2. When Things Are a Little Rocky
You may be going through a rough patch, days leading up to Valentine’s Day. That’s obviously not a good place to be, but there certainly are different ways to maneuver the situation and even make it turn out for the better.
Maybe you have been getting stuck in a routine and need a little spontaneity to stir things up? Perhaps a chance to talk it out could open the door to understanding each other again. Or maybe, all you have to do is acknowledge the tough times and let your significant other know that you do see the struggle and you’re willing and committed to working through it together. You can suggest or initiate a spontaneous adventure, a romantic staycation, or even the idea of going to therapy together if you’re really working through deeper issues. It’s definitely more complicated, but it could also be a great opportunity to rise above the challenge and re-establish your love, understanding, and appreciation for each other.
3. After Exchanging ‘I Love You’
Some people, on the other hand, could be on their honeymoon stage, and everything feels new, exciting, and just magical. Sky’s definitely the limit for you love birds, and you can plan any surprising activity that you think the both of you could enjoy. It could be a private picnic, and outdoor activity, or just a chill yet romantic movie marathon at home. Make it uniquely yours and consider this a great chance to learn more about each other and create memories that last.
4. For Those in the Comfort Zone
Perhaps you’ve been dating for over a year now and have gotten so close and comfortable around each other. This phase calls for a totally different game that involves a bit more TLC. Break your normal routine and have the kind of getaway that would make everything feel fresh and exciting once again. You may not feel the need to spice things up, but for sure you’d feel more renewed and energized after taking a break from the usual. Imagine a cozy cabin in the woods or a beachside escape, and consider all the new memories you could share to remind yourself of why you fell for each other in the first place.
5. For Couples in Long-Term Relationship
If you’re already years and years into the relationship, you’ve probably had your fair share of highs and lows and in-betweens. By now, your bond has grown into something truly unique; it feels like it has a life of its own. This is all the more reason to make your Valentine’s Day together extra special. Consider trying out something totally different, even something you’ve never thought of before like a cooking class or a unique outdoor adventure. Right now, it’s no longer about doing something grand but about reaffirming the relationship and keeping the spark alive.
6. When You’re Recently Single
Valentine’s Day may feel a bit tough for you if you’ve just entered the single zone, but perhaps it’s now time to think about doing the exact things that would make you happy. You could make Valentine’s Day entirely about you– doing your favorite activity, eating your favorite meal, or going to your favorite places. You set the tone, and you’re celebrating the day centering on that much-needed self-love.
Not everyone may get to enjoy Valentine’s Day the way they wanted or imagined, but there are so many ways to make the day feel special nonetheless. If you have someone to share that special day with, cherish every moment of it. If you don’t, savor that chance to heal, grow, and rediscover yourself with renewed focus. It’s all about celebrating all kinds of love, so just focus on making it count.
