In the face of the pain of losing your loved ones, do you choose to indulge in pain, or choose to bravely step out of the shadows, work hard to make a new life, and not be afraid of other people’s gossip?
In the face of the pain of losing your loved ones, do you choose to indulge in pain, or choose to bravely step out of the shadows, work hard to make a new life, and not be afraid of other people’s gossip? Anyone who loses those they love would, of course, be in pain, but do we move on, or stay single for the rest of our lives?
Recently, a 42-year-old British woman started dating again just eight weeks after she lost her husband. This move also caused a lot of controversies, especially among the relatives of the deceased husband, saying that she no respect for him. However, this was not the case. “When Tim took ill in August 2015, they told me pretty early on what the outcome was going to be,” said Natalie, from Stalybridge, Greater Manchester, England. “I did my grieving in those four months while he was still here. I knew what was coming and I had to stay strong for our son Oliver.” She also stated that when her husband passed away, a lot of her friends didn’t call since they didn’t know what to say, causing Natalie to feel even lonelier and wanting friends she could talk to.
What Natalie did is considered a rare case in the United Kingdom, a fairly conservative country. But does this mean that people should wash their faces in tears all day because they’ve lost a loved one? No. Putting the past behind you is the final way out. Many TV dramas also teach us to let go of our pain and start a new life bravely. In fact, we need to give people the courage to start again, instead of blaming them or judging them.
If you are someone who has had a bad experience in love or dating in the past and are still stuck without the courage to move on, now is the time. There’s nothing wrong with locking yourself away if you’re unhappy or lost someone special, but don’t overdo it. There are plenty more interesting things you can do in life, and plenty more fish in the sea. Give yourself a deadline when you can be depressed up to, then move on and start your new life over. Unhappy things in life don’t go away unless you let new things in.
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